I am a woman and i have experienced both situation, being the one who makes more and the one who makes less money in a relationship, so i hope my experience can help you i once dated a guy who made less money than me and because i loved him and.
There is nothing wrong with a woman who makes her own money dating a great guy who makes $45k however, if the woman was pulling in $200k, and the guy was only making $45k, i think it might end up being difficult for this man to court his woman in a way that is consistent with her lifestyle.
It’s all about respect when it comes to dating a guy who doesn’t rake in as much dough as you do, turn up the aretha franklin and make sure that you are giving each other some r-e-s-p-e-c-t. The biggest problem i’ve run into is not based around how i feel about dating someone who makes less money than me (not a problem at all), but around how he reacts over time to the fact that i make more money than him.
Any man whom you date, rich or poor, must make the effort to take you out on planned, lovely dates this is an area where rich men don’t actually have the advantage there are so many inexpensive activities that impress women more than a lavish vacation that is planned by his assistant.
Nearly every relationship i know involves a woman who makes more money than the man she is dating/living with/married to my fiance has made less money than me throughout our entire 8 year relationship, except for a few months when i was unemployed. Andy: i generally date women who make less money than me i think the reason is i take my career very seriously i think the reason is i take my career very seriously i know that sounds arrogant, but i'm a pretty driven guy, more driven than most men and women. He was the guy i thought i was going to marry, and given that i was on the later side of my 20s than the earlier, so did almost everyone else the financial confessions: “i won’t date a man who makes less than six figures” i’m constantly trying to make ends meet, and have had to borrow money from my parents more times than i’d. But it wasn’t about someone making less money, but in some cases, the man made as much or more it was really about how they handled money and bills, and in one case, the person had a lot of debt that he hadn’t been honest about, and that matters b/c it impacts your combined household budget.
It’s this eery catch-22 that makes women fall for the unattractive man because he acts like an attractive one either way, less attractive men are hitting on hot women as hot men stand around. Some thought a man may feel inadequate if he dates a woman who makes more money i also heard the opinion that most women were not going to want to be with a guy less accomplished, because it is simply not attractive and they may not want to be the “bread winner.
Singles: should a woman date a man who makes less money than she does by aesha adams roberts leave a comment if you have a high achieving sister with a salary that is more than some two-person households combined, you may have found dating is a bit more challenging for you.